Hope this motivates you the way it does me each and every morning 🌄 to achieve my goals!
To the narcissist!
You said I couldn’t do it, you said, I’d never make it! I am relentless. I am driven, and I am coming after everything you said I couldn’t have!
Let me tell you this, I have everything I need! My success is my insanity and it keeps me up at night pushing, pushing 💪 me to the top!
I have a harmonious home, a great start to a successful career, my own business, successful, thriving, happy children! A loving, gentle, passionate man who showed me unconditional love! I have everything you said I would never have! I not only beat you, I WON! I HAVE EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE THAT I NEED!
Thank you for being a screw up! I hope someday you change your ways, i don’t wish harm i already got even! See, i was a fighter, that fighter mentality was something in me that scared the shit out of you! Thats why you tried to control me, and when you realized you couldn’t, it made you more angry and that anger motivated me to get so angry i left you right where you belonged in your misery and desperation! Life is too short to be miserable, and no one should ever give up anything in their life for someone else’s dreams or love! How far I have come!
Maybe this speal will touch and / or push someone else to do what they need to do! And someday I will speak to the world as a motivational speaker and I will help those who are like me! See probably something else you didn’t know about me, another dream of mine! Ha, but what did you know about me anyway 😏 😅
Not sure how long it has been since last reading you. I think of you often and, if you can believe this, my lovely Nichole is just this week putting out some spring blooms!!!
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Awww hey beautiful 😍 why thank you so much! I adore this comment and the writer behind it! I am honored and humbled and grateful 🙏
I haven’t been writing as much but that will be changing been a busy bee lol
But I am so ready to get back to the writing world again ❤❤
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Wow! Nuclear!!! So, I’m guessing you aren’t shaking in your boots about revealing comments and writing anymore?LOL 🤣🤣😁😍😘💕🌹
You are right that this will help others take the steps that are so hard and scary to make – because you Did It!! Yeah! 😍💕🌹
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I knew for years I had to do it, and one day I said enough! Scary with kids in school and being stripped of my independence however the Mental state of the kids and I where far by worse then changes and I didn’t care what the cost or my marriage!
My kids are happy and living in unison without fear or worry and there is no stress in our house and everyday there is no what’s next feeling or yelling! We use the microwave, we use the heat, we leave chairs not pushed In or a dish in the sink, we actually live and smile and there is calm 😀
I am successful and have a man who lives for what’s real, love, family and the sun rising everyday! And he doesn’t stress stupidity 🙄 lol
And.dill and he have lived together for a year in happiness and friendship and respect and we have fun all the time ❤
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Thrilled to hear it and have you sharing about it and sharing about your experience that will help others get out of the same type of relationship. Can’t tell you how happy I am to see you writing about it!!
Hoping You and yours are all well and safe??? 😘💕🌹
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I want to write more on the topic and at some point motivational speaking
In the future but definitely a goal of mine to help and save and give positive reinforcement to those who are where I was and some afraid to leave and those who left and healed.
Narcissistic trauma is a real thing as is the healing and there is damage to the brain
It’s psychologically damaging and most won’t escape
I want to help those with my story
Hope your well and puppy patrol is closer to dog control 🤣🤣🤣
😘💜
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet and commented:
Come read this from Nichole!!!
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Hey Chuck 😀 I had a video to go with this however it did not upload even after I previewed it was there 😄
It was the motivational video i play daily !
Thank you for the love and support ❤️ over the years ❤️
Honored for the repost!
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Always there, My Dear!! Happy to share it!! 😘💕🌹
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Awww thanks chuck ❤❤
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