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An Introduction to my fabulous and chaotic world!

My name is nichole my family and friends refer to me as princess :), nikki , (that is my preference) and sparkles. Sparkles originates from my late father in law who upon meeting me for the first time and ( every time there after) noticed i wore glitter in some way shape or form or i wore something that sparkles. From there on out i was branded and blessed with my new nickname, SPARKLES!

Today i am at the young age of 46 okay so that’s middle age but 40 something in 2019 is young, hip, fulfilling, stressful and chaotic, but that,s okay everyday is a blessing! I am remarried to my husband kevin who is a captain in corrections. He is a man of respect and integrity who worked very hard to climb the ladder of success! He also rides a harley let me say it took me years to come up with courage to ride on the back of that bike but WOW now i look forward to those rides, i guess a little adrenaline does run in my veins Oh and much praying. 🙂 I can surely admit second marriages and careers of this nature come with many obstacles, challenges, and immense struggles but there are also mostly and importantly rewards. Myself i went back to school in my 30’s to earn a degree in the medical field. After countless hours of studying with a school age son and two toddlers I became a certified medical assistant and worked in dermatology for over 8 years. I assisted in surgical procedures and met some wonderful patients. I can honestly say it is amazing how your patients become such a part of you and your life, they touch and embrace you daily it is a very rewarding career. Loving and leaving this career was a very hard decision one which i had to make after a lot of thought, consideration, and circumstances that where out of my control. But more on that later. I have three beautiful children and two of the most precious grand babies! I’am the oldest of 5 siblings. Some of which make life so much better and are there if i need them and likewise. One brother and 3 sisters, many wonderful nieces and nephews, Godchildren, and so many and i mean MANY extending family as of a Italian descent, there are so many cousins and second cousins i could write a page on just that. God has blessed me. I also love the color pink, love pizza, fine red wine, sunflowers and my dad. In my spare time i enjoy writing poetry.

My Oldest son is 22 he is not only successful but strong, intelligent, and a handsome man who also happens to be a wonderful father. This boy i raised has became this man. In the blink of a eye i went from changing diapers to him receiving his bachelors in a year and striving to become a investment banker. At this time he is raising two toddlers with the help of his pretty finance while going to school, interning, and working part time this is truly success at its finest. I am a proud mommy to say the least!

My second son is 16 going into his junior year. He is a wonderful, beautiful young man. He has had to work very hard to achieve his goals he has severe ADHD making things very challenging for not only him but the family. It has been a long hard road and one we are still riding. ADHD shows no mercy thus one of the reasons i left my career. More on that later as well. If i can say one thing with the heartbreak that ADHD can cause my son is much more then ADHD . He is charismatic and loving and his goal is to own his own business he has thrifty knowledge on buying, selling, trading, i forsee a luderative business in his future. And let it be known when he smiles and is happy it fulfills my heart.

Then there is my little pretty princess my only daughter. She is a angel with a teenage attitude( yay 15). Both intelligent and wise above her years she is going into her sophomore year with honors she works very hard to uphold a high GPA. My daughter is about success and academics and as many sports as she can play. Since she was 5 she has wanted to be a surgeon i can see that the path she is on is one of success and admiration.

My grand babies are 4 and 1 let me say they are the epitome of perfection! My life is full of joy since God blessed me with being a mom-mom.

We have two dogs needless to say i’am not a big dog lover but i am however a big animal lover. My daughters dog is a 10 yr old poodle he is quiet, easy, and loving. His name is harley. Then we have penny she is over a year and since she is technically still a puppy she is hyper a terror and makes this house chaotic she is rambunctiuos, and somewhat destructive . I ask myself what was i thinking, just saying. We also have about 15 fish there easy to say the least. Believe it or not two of those fish are mine and i have a bond with them, embarrassing hmmm maybe 😉 i talk to my fish, okay is that silly? Well they greet me and say hello each morning by flapping there little fins in excitement when i talk to them , see i am a animal lover. 🙂 Oh There names are finley and treasure.

My goal for this blog is to talk about life, love, divorce, remarriage, career challenges, kids with challenges, esp. but not limited to ADHD. Being 40 middle age but fun, flirty, fantastic, a wife, working mother and just holding up in today’s balancing act juggling all of the above. There are also many more topics, life experiences some good and some that will definitely intrigue you. This is my first time sharing my life i hope to take you on this journey with me. Hang on tight and enjoy the ride.

Sweet Slumber Written By Me xoxo

Reposing herself gently

Among the soft pillow

Lost in the daydream of him

A smile grows across her face

Drifting into a slight slumber

The lullaby of him

Repeating itself

Trying to satisfy her hunger

The wanting desire to be with him

Satin sheets

His strong embrace

Her soft lips

The essence of her

His dreamy eyes

As he ravishes her

The union of there bodies

Like clockwork


Sweet sweat

Satisfaction met

Until she awakens from this sweet slumber

Only to thirst for the daydream

To become reality!

Lucent Moon Written By Nichole Sulpizio

Under the moon lit night

Crackling fire

Obscured by the burning wood

Smoke filled tears

Of a moment in time

When i thought he may be mine

And I his

His wish to be

Free with me

Locked in the fantasy

Of snowy nights

Lost in a cabin

His soft lips on mine

Drenched in wine

In a drunken fantasy

Of pent up desire

The heat of his body

Immersed with mine

Climatic state

Never to rewind

A love so passionate

One wishes to find

At least once in a lifetime

Come love me! xoxo

Straight from the heart today! ❤

To all my blogger friends across the world I speak from the heart tonight! I personally tend not to watch the news as I view it as depressing and just too painful to watch! Tonight, I turned on the news unfortunately and my heart just broke! This beautiful world has turned into such a place of hate and crime and animosity. If only we could just learn to love more and forgo hate and learn forgiveness! Remember when we where children and we all viewed the world with different eyes? It was so big and interesting and people were all the same no matter who they were or where they came from, if only we could have the innocence that children have maybe the world would be at peace! I have a big heart and hate to see people hurt, I can not comprehend war, hurting others with words or actions, to me life is a blessing and everyone is unique and beautiful! I love the beautiful state and country I live in as I also love other beautiful countries around the world that are filled with so many beautiful,wonderful people! No one deserves war, pain or fighting or disease! If I could reach one person tonight and if I could ask God for one prayer to be answered, if I could ask Santa for one special gift it would be world peace and stop all this fighting! God bless the USA and God bless all of you and God bless all the countries you live in and all of my blogger friends tonight where ever you are! Xoxo

She's Gone 😥 Written By Nichole Sulpizio

Like a flash of light

A lighting strike

Without warning

She came into my life

Struck my heart


Like the sharp blade of a knife


Changed my world

This beautiful girl

Knocked me off my feet

My head spinning constantly

She was in every thought


Everything a man could want

Those beautiful eyes

Radiating like the sea

Blue, green

She captivates me

Long flowing hair

Pretty in bows

Her unique stare

Ruby lips


Sparkles all around

This woman flipped my heart

My life


Upside down

Letting her slip though the cracks

Terrified to take a chance

On romance

That i never knew could exist

Fearful to try

To proud to admit

I may not be all she needs



Let her slip away

From my fingertips

Bleeding for her

Drowning in the sound of her voice

The sexy things she does

The way she calls out my name

Blowing kisses to the wind

My friend she is gone

I let her get away

To another mans arms

I am alone

And she is with him

She is gone!

Winter dreaming ❄💋

Looking out the cafe pane

The sweet aroma of coffee brewing

Bitterness in the morning air

The quiver of her body

Warmth of the coffee as it hits her lips

The taste of peppermint on her tongue

She felt that perpetual burning again

The desire to run to him

Dreaming of his strong embrace

The softness of his face

Longing for his touch

Rough, erotic, intense

He too can not get enough

Of this beautiful lady he desires so much

This attraction

So strong

Two pounding hearts

Soul mates that belong

His arms is where she dreams to be

Looking out the cafe pane

Dreaming of this sensual fantasy ❤

Sweet Seduction! Written By Nichole Sulpizio xoxo

Red Lips

Black fingertips

Merlot kisses

Scratches down your back

Darkness in her eyes

With the sweet scent of an angel

“Sweet Seduction”



Of everything she is


Whole body bliss

With that first kiss

“Sweet seduction”

Everything you dream of

In leather and lace

With a innocent face

Sexy by nature

She will steal your heart

Sell it to the devil

Your soul lost

And you will never forget her

“Sweet seduction”

A warm snowy thought ☃️

Today the northeast will be hit with our first snowfall of the season. 🌬 That to me brings many wonderful snowy thoughts and dreams. All I can think about now this morning is warm hot coco with a peppermint twist, illuminating lights from the Christmas tree 🎄 snuggled up under a toasty fluffy soft blanket! I Must have warm gingerbread cookies baking in the oven and a balsam fir candle burning. Then to top it off Christmas love movies playing as I watch the cars pass by and the snowflakes fall. 🌨 I also think I just may go out as those white beautiful snow flakes fall from the night sky ❄ and let them gently hit my face tap my lips 💋 and as I spin around in laughter looking up into the sky, I may fall and make a snow angel. These are my beautiful thoughts for this beautiful day ahead! ❤🥰