As long as there is glitter life will sparkle! Who does not love a little sparkle in there step! Glitter, sparkle, shine…BE YOURSELF!!!
My name is nichole my family and friends refer to me as princess :), nikki , and sparkles! 🌸 I wear glitter everything and nothing shines more then a beautiful array of sparkles..I love to shimmer and shine and light up the world!!💋 Now who wouldn’t want a little sparkle in there life 💖 I also have been called recently, Angel and The Italian princess as well as Jersey!!
Today i am at the young age of 47 okay so that’s middle age but 40 something in 2020 is young, hip, fulfilling, stressful and chaotic, but that,s okay everyday is a blessing! My kids are grown and i am ready to have some fun!! Life is beautiful although it comes with many obstacles, challenges, and immense struggles but mostly and importantly life is full of rewards. Myself i went back to school in my 30’s to earn a degree in the medical field. After countless hours of studying with a school age son and two toddlers I became a certified medical assistant and worked in dermatology for over 8 years. I assisted in surgical procedures and met some wonderful patients. I can honestly say it is amazing how your patients become such a part of you and your life, they touch and embrace you daily it is a very rewarding career. Loving and leaving this career was a very hard decision one which i had to make after a lot of thought, consideration, and circumstances that were out of my control. But more on that later. I have three beautiful children and two of the most precious grand babies! I’am the oldest of 5 siblings. Some of which make life so much better and are there if i need them and likewise. One brother and 3 sisters, many wonderful nieces and nephews, Godchildren, and so many and i mean MANY extending family as of a Italian descent, there are so many cousins and second cousins i could write a page on just that. God has blessed me. I also love the color pink, love pizza, fine red wine, sunflowers and my dad. In my spare time i enjoy writing poetry and blogging. Writing has become one of the strongest passions i have ever had!
My Oldest son is 24 he is not only successful but strong, intelligent, and a handsome man who also happens to be a wonderful father. This boy i raised has became this man. In the blink of a eye i went from changing diapers to him receiving his bachelor’s to become a investment banker. Obtaining a job straight out of college with a huge firm..At this time he is raising a toddler and school age son with the help of his girlfriend Emily. My son is truly success at its finest. I am a proud mommy to say the least!
My second son is 18. He is a wonderful, beautiful young man. He has had to work very hard to achieve his goals he has severe ADHD making things very challenging for not only him but the family. It has been a long hard road and one we are still riding. ADHD shows no mercy thus one of the reasons i left my career. More on that later as well. If i can say one thing with the heartbreak that ADHD can cause my son is much more then ADHD . He is charismatic and loving and his goal is to own his own business he has thrifty knowledge on buying, selling, trading, i forsee a luderative business in his future. And let it be known when he smiles and is happy it fulfills my heart.
Then there is my little pretty princess my only daughter. She is a angel with a teenage attitude( yay 16). Both intelligent and wise above her years she went from sophomore year to senior passing over junior year with honors she works very hard to uphold a high GPA. My daughter is about success and academics and as many sports as she can play. Since she was 5 she has wanted to be a surgeon i can see that the path she is on is one of success and admiration.
My grand babies are 5 and almost 3 let me say they are the epitome of perfection! My life is full of joy since God blessed me with being a mom-mom.
We have a dog named harley amd two fish. Needless to say i’am not a big dog lover but i am however a big animal lover.
My goal for this blog is to talk about life, love, divorce, career challenges, kids with challenges, esp. but not limited to ADHD. Being 40 middle age but fun, flirty, fantastic, a working mother and just holding up in today’s balancing act juggling all of the above. There are also many more topics, life experiences some good and some that will definitely intrigue you. This is my first time sharing my life i hope to take you on this journey with me. Hang on tight and enjoy the ride.
2 years ago this beautiful and powerful song set me free!
I heard these words and a pain shot through my whole body and brought me to my knees in tears! I will never forget! What was worse is my family couldn’t take anymore and noone was holding back on telling me what they where witnessing and they wanted the real me back!
Its in fear that we find strength 💪 and it’s in pain we find courage!
I left a narcissistic relationship and in the midst of mind controlling tactics I never allowed him to control my own thoughts and desires and decisions like most do! God was in the driver seat and my heart too strong to ever wane from my own identity!
Today looking back I wish I wouldn’t have waited so long! I have my own business and it’s growing, my children are healthier and happier and free to live and speak and be teenagers and accepted as such in my new relationship! There is no crazy just tranquility! And I now remember what communication is after years of not being able to express and communicate as it was shunned! I am relearning trust and it is a beautiful thing! 😍
Wishing all my fellow bloggers and Healthy and Happy New Year ❤
Make everyday count I lost years that I will never regain, life is precious treat it as such! The rewards are endless not always easy, I won’t proclaim easy, however, I will proclaim Healthy, Happy and mostly NORMAL!
As a writer we are fuled by thoughts and feelings and emotions! Both past, present and future! My words purely express my deepest emotions! Never sorry for my words as the past made me sorry for feeling and has taught me many lessons…writers understand the fire of a inspiration and writing will always be the biggest part of me! Only I need to understand the significance and passion of my heart and soul
If I can give some advice to all my beautiful blogger girls all over the world 🌎 my advice and hints and secrets! 💋
1.) Do not Do not use bleach or at least not on your whole head that is! I was born blonde, a beautiful blonde, until the age of 10 when It darkened…unfortunately for years I used bleach under the silly impression, “Blondes have more fun theory “😉 😜 First that is overrated and outdated! While blonde is beautiful I agree, what is more beautiful is a healthy Mane that is long and soft and flowing…trust me a man would much rather touch a head full of soft hair then a head full of straw that is blonde in color ladies! Unless of course you stay naturally blonde well then your lucky 😏 best of both worlds!
2.) Wash no more then 3 x a week less if your lucky like me and you have more of a dry texture…washing too much is a killer on beautiful hair no matter how expensive the products you use! Throw out that idea of you have to wash everyday …PROMISE less is more! But don’t skip on the daily showers please 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
3.) Air dry omg 😲 stop with the hair dryers nothing dries hair more then hairdryers…I haven’t used one or owned one in over 5 years! Air-dry!
4.) Braid before bed! Don’t leave uour hair down before you hit the sheets all that tossing and turning is bad for your hair EVEN with a satin pillow case! Braid hair lightly in the back as it’s sexy and keeps hair without knots and tangles!
5.) Use olaplex! Look it up online it repairs and restores hair keeping it healthy from all the damage we do to our locks! If you still need to bleach your hair, well, at least use olaplex in between salon visits and during the bleaching process…ask your hairdresser and look this valued product up online I vouch its a God send and I am a skeptic on products! This is a keeper as I have used it for at least 7 years!
6.) Get your hair trimmed no more then 3 or 4 times a year…..anymore then that it’s stays the same length.. I know I made the mistake of buying into the idea of every 4 to 6 weeks that a trim is necessary…it kept me locked into the same length for way too long!
7.) Then there’s the obvious….eat well don’t smoke, you know all the nasty habits that destroy your insides and health along with your skin and hair affecting not only your inner organs but your outer appearance!
Hope these little tid bits help 🙏
Now try not to brush too much and when you do hopefully your full of luster and love ❤ 💕 ♥
Kisses beauties 😘 💋
A Year Later and years later as well!
Never realizing the psychological damage that stalking from one and narcissistic abuse from another could have such a negative yet positive impact on my life!
You may have hurt me you may have damaged me BUT YOU DIDNT BREAK ME!
Your weakness made me stronger and wiser and made me the beautiful and confident woman I am today!
I thought I was always strong and beautiful before but you made me a warrior and the scars you created upon my heart my mind and soul made me fight harder then I ever have in life and my success is your failure!
This video and those lyrics match my words I played this video last year it strikes and burns the truths of my inner being….. for you only God can forgive you for what you have done to not only me but others …you better get down on your knees and pray he forgives you! Damnation is your future!
Oh the truths I could tell, for now your not worth it …those two gross pigs in the video you two can decipher who’s who
Oink oink 🐷
If you can’t leave a comment it’s accidental sometimes when you preview or edit it creates local changes and its hard to reverse …but this had to be said today something hit me yesterday making me realize the price I had to pay to become the person I am today! If my video doesn’t play go directly to my site it’s visible to play there!
Hugs to all the beautiful writers across the globe our words strike the heart and cords of the ears who listen ❤💋
ERIC THOMAS is thee best Motivational speaker in the world he got my son through college raising two kids and dealing with the hardship of a narcissistic relationship I was in! This son of mine is working on getting his masters in the near future and already works for a large firm! Graduating with a 3.9 GPA while raising 2 toddlers is a amazing accomplishment! He graduated with honors and cum laude!
This Is my baby!!!
Eric Thomas pushes me everyday to not only work two jobs but succeed In my business a business a narcissistic relationship tried to hold me back from! I am successful and I am doing it! I not only left a narcissistic relationship I dealt with the weakest man I know a man who stalked me for 13 years and it seems may be trying to stir things up again as I noticed some of the same traits happening to my phone as in the past! Listen you weak little Napoleon syndrome piece of crap you need serious medical help and while your at get prepared to have this story told because the only lesson you will ever learn is the one when your shackled and looking through the bars of a jail cell! And don’t worry detective on speed dial and I am watching all my accounts I am already pressing his text to notify him..
But losers stay losers and winners win!!
To both of you ….I won! Hope this helps my word press friends get motivatedIt will get your heart pumping and skip in your stepLove to the beautiful friends across the globe 🌎 ❤
And thank you Eric Thomas 🙏
Red lips 👄
Stained on her wine glass 🍷
Taste of her
Like a dark decant treat
Lick your lips
Like her curves
Black lace tattoos
Like a garter
On her thighs
Your temperate rising
The softness of her skin
Like a sunflower 🌻
In its beautiful array
On a warm summer day
Taste of her kiss
Upon your lips
Want to lick
Melts upon your tongue
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Dedicated to the life I left behind and to the success I am creating, not only in my personal life but my career as well as my writing 💋
I finally opened my own legitimate business today I got the paperwork In hand (I AM MY OWN EMPLOYER)… I so wanted to open this for quite some time but damned and control by vows that where not as strong as my will to live!! Therefore I had to leave behind the nay sayers whom held me back…to the chains I broke and the prison walls that bound me …no more will any person hold me down for my light and life are mine to succeed and sparkle ✨ the first step to success was your demise as I exhaled and purged your disease … now as I inhale my new life.. my heart is finally fulfilled!!
Leaps and bounds
She is gaining ground
Success is at her feet
There never was defeat
Only the rusty chains that bound her
Tears wiped away
For there is no longer dismal rainy days
By array of beaming light
Sunshine so bright
The gleaming sweat
Dancing upon her skin
To the beat of a new drum
Soul is purified
Life is taking flight
To a bright new horizon
The bleeding scars left behind
Upon her delicate wrists
Like the nightmare she woke from
Waterfalls of tears
Soaked pillow case
Disgraced upon his name
Living in his evil
To his existence
Four prison walls
Couldn’t hold her
Laughing at your dismay
The games you played
You silly fool
You lost her
And she is everything
You where afraid she would be
Like the beautiful butterfly 🦋
Flying upon its new horizon 😎
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Thank you Chuck for the pleasure of writing together ❤
Your Words Are Weapons
Sharp And Deadly
And Meant To Wound
A Smiling Liar,
Tender Poems And Promises
That Disguise So Well
The Disgusting Deceit
And The Blades That Cut So Deep
The Stock In Trade
For A Thief Of Hearts And Time,
While Parading Around
In Carefully Crafted Lies,
That Give The Appearance
Of Virtue, Gallantry
And A Fine Character,
When Observed From A Far
But With Time,
The Evil, Wicked Ways You Possess
Start To Become Visible
As Facts And Truth
Start Dissolving The Mask
You Use To Hide Your Lies
And Psychotic Tendencies Behind
No Guilt Or Shame Or Regret
Have You, For The Broken Hearts
And Stolen Time You Have Taken
From The Lives Of Others,
Karma And Justice
Will Give A Harsh Judgment
That Will Fall Upon Your Soul,
And Your Name Will Be
The Definition Of Shame And Disgust
Soon You Will Feel The Wrath
Of Judgment For Your Sins
As You Feel The Torment
For What You Have Done
To The Innocent
Your Meaningless Apologies
Will Echo Back,
The Words You Yell,
Repulsed By The Gates Of Hell
As The Wicked Soul
Of The Thief Of Hearts And Time,
Shares His Well Deserved Fate
With The Devil
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