First I’d like to thank, “The war at home and Narc Wise” for these on point and factual truths about life and living with a narcissist! See pics below ❤️
Unfortunately, for me, I’ve had the unpleasurable experience of living with a narcissist! I was able to control my sanity while living in survival mode! This is not typical for most and although hard you question everything and anything, therfore, nothing seems real! Anyone who knows what narcissistic abuse feels like will tell you it’s a constant war between reality and survival mode and remembering what’s right or wrong and staying in touch with yourself while being abused! All I can say was it was a fight for my life, and while working and raising kids I had to maintain my focus and not lose myself in the crazy and it was crazy, painfully such! More on that later!
For now, looking back, I was glad that my strong will for life and for my dreams helped keep me going and if I can offer advice to anyone suffering any abuse, whether physical and or emotional or mental find someone to confide in and let them help you to safety as you won’t really see the repercussions of what abuse does to your brain until you leave! There will be some PTSD and for me it’s been an ongoing feeling of indecisiveness even down to what I eat each day something so minuscule is so heavy for someone who’s reality was tested daily!
Don’t, let anyone tell you how to live your life you have to live your life on your own terms! Its imperative in this short life but you also have to get rid of the naysayers, the haters, you have to get rid of those in your life that thrive on drama and those that try to control your life such as the narcissist! The narcissist used to tell me all the time when I would express how I wanted to live my life, what I saw for my life, and the dreams that I had for my life, he use to state and i quote, “I would never make it without him”! Well, he is eating his words now! Since leaving him, I have opened my own business, I have doubled my income in less than a year I live in peace and tranquility I have returned to what normal is in a relationship and in life in general! And as my buisness grows it will be lucrative! I have healthy, happy kids and a family that lives in peace and unison all together! So when he quoted I WOULDN’T MAKE IT WITHOUT HIM it was actually the opposite, I WOULDN’T MAKE IT WITH HIM!!
Happy Thursday Everyone! Live, Love and Never have regrets! 💋
GlitzyRitzyMommy 
You are my shero!!!
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❤️🙂😘
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😘❤️ Thanks beautiful
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You are a wonderful joy and am so darn GLAD you got away from that life.
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Thanks love 😘 .yes I put the running boots on and ran like hell
Have met 2 pyscos in my life and this was one
Don’t miss a single second of that life and my kids and I are actually LIVING now
Wish I wouldn’t have wasted so much time on someone so undeserving however he sits in a empty world inside his empty shell!
How are you lovely 😍
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You dear!! Am just managing, not exactly as stellar as one could, but there are good things in our world and those are nice!
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Focus on the good and make changes where needed to find happiness! Life is to short to waste time on unhappiness! I know! I wish you love and happiness beautiful 😍
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Wow! What a powerful and meaningful post for those who live with one or know someone who does! I can’t tell you how proud I am of You, My Dear!! But I’m hoping you know everything words don’t say! Thrilled you have been able to reclaim your life and are now on track to using that experience to help those who haven’t been as fortunate – Yet!! With Your help and support I know you will be a blessing and Godsend to so many! LAH 😊😘💕💖🌹
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Hey Chuck 😃 as you well know it’s been a long and trying path but one worth every ounce of stress because the day I said goodbye that goodbye was my hello to a, “NORMAL” life again! I am and my kids are living happy and loving and no more stress! The tedious things that he complained about, such as you can’t use the microwave because it uses to much electricity, that smacked ass shit doesn’t exist anymore! And it doesn’t even Ding a electric bill 🙄 that no sitting on the couch with your socks on the cushion, my feet are all over the couch now because that’s friggin silly as shit 😜 no more sweating or freezing with ungodly temps and no more Surveillance abuse with the cameras!
This totally crazy off the wall shit 😳 is GONE! Everyone in my life and house lives normal 😃💜💚💙
Hope your well 🙏
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Sorry you had to go through that…. Hope you’re well 🙂
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Hey stranger 😃 I am well thank you 😊
Hope the the same for you!!
I wish my kids and I hadn’t but I learned to trust my gut that much more when choosing someone in a relationship
There where some sure red flags within a year wish I would have walked and not wasted so many years but on the bright side I will help someone else and it may lead me down a path to motivate and speak to others whom feel there’s no way out! There is always a way out, it’s not easy but it’s well worth it! We get one life should not waste it on someone unworthy 😃👍
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Hey stranger to you too 🙂 I’m glad you’re well.
I’m doing ok thanks, same old.
I defintely agree you should waste your time on someone unworthy… Keep up the good work!
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Thanks Simon and will do! Always great to know your well 😃 even if same old, sometimes, “same old” is tranquility 👍😃
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I am indeed… tranquility is pushing maybe lol.
Keep being you 🙂
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Haha 😄
And absolutely 💯 😃
I always keep a LITTLE SPARKLE ✨️ in my step 🥰
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That’s good to hear, it wouldn’t be you without the sparkling ✨🥰
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😃🥰
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