As writers we write based on a feeling a circumstance or a whim…as a reader we interpret things our own way and possibly not intended from the writers point of view …we take a writers post and see what we want to see which is a beautiful thing, however, may not always be what the writer intended to have it seen as…
Let me explain, so the last 2 posts I did have left a few asking questions so I felt the need to clarify so here we go..
My post about the past in which I felt the need to be very expressive in reaction to some whom have entered my life have nothing to do with my ex husband rick whom I spent 20 years with, who still today is one of my best friends…nor my high school sweetheart rob whom also is one of my dearest friends…like my friends ray and Tara and hope, rob and rick are some of the most important people in my life …that post had nothing to do with them! It was about a few in the past who’s intentions where violate and disturbing..enough said …thank God for my friends β€
Which them knowing me leads me to this …a confident and secure woman does not have to be a cold hearted bitch..contrary to popular belief being confident and strong and able to be comfortable in yourself does not mean you can’t be a hopeless romantic who loves gently and tenderly and loves fun and romance…just for the record…
Also not searching for marriage or restraints…looking for someone whom likes to smile and laugh and have fun..whom likes wine and fires π₯ winery’s and dinners, movies and popcorn and walks outdoors…looking for fun with a warm open heart not closed off to possibilities..
One thing i will admit I don’t want concieted or vain …just real!
Ahhhhh….frustration released …answers given …not that I have to clarify or justify but I hate misconceptions and things being misconstrued…
Now onto my day after work…making a spicy chili π enjoying my Sunday!
Lots of love to all of you! Truly love my friends on word press β€
Yes to the chili and this post!
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GOOD COMUNICATION IS LIKE THIS! β€
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Thanks sweetheart π β€ you know me have to say whats on my mind π
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No problem…we love your mind!
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Awww thanks babe π appreciate it!!
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I don’t like the beans that go in chilli so I leave them out also half Chilli powder half smoked Paprika and lean mince beef. So it is not strictly chilli I guess.
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However you like it is perfect because you like it! I love the spicer the better for me lol I used diced tomatoes with green chilis and hot salsa π π besides a smoked paprika is perfect π
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Thank you. π
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Of course love β€ perfect the way you are and what you like π β€ π
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Oooh, Chili! When is dinner?? LOL!! Sounds wonderful!! So you cook Italian and Mexican? Mmmm!
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Hi chuck you know I am a jack of all trades π π I can cook anything π π dinner is simmering now I say 630 π€£π€£π€£
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Perfect! I will bring the guacamole and a bottle of Merlot!! Ha!
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I love guacamole!! Sour cream too π merlot poured you better hurry π€£π€£π€£π
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Yes, Sour Cream too! Just around the corner! Ha!
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π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ it smells soooo good the whole place and smells spicy π merlot poured house smells amazing and I am chilled and smiling π π β€π
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Mmmm, can’t wait! Ha!
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Better catch a quick flight chuck …π€£π€£π€£π€£πβ€
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Flight? pulling into the parking spot! Ha!
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We’ll you must be a magician π© how did you pull that off π€£π€£π€£
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Used one of my Genie wishes!
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I need a genie send her my way π€£π€£ i have quite a few wishes way overdue
..you know that chuck β€π€£π
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I will let her know that You have – Wishes! Don’t know if Genies are subject to lock down?
Hope you are having a good day, YHWWoman! Hate knowing you are Out there!!
Be safe Jersey Girl!!
xoxox πππΉβ¨
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Awww….thanks chuck π this jersey girl is Jersey strong πͺ π you stay safe too love …xoxo
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That is a deal!! JGirl!
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Enjoy the Spicy Chilli
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Hey sweetie π the hotter the better…green chili’s hot salsa a fun different way then basic with jalapeΓ±os…π yummy will love the burn π₯
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The hotter & the intense….the better π₯
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Just like with everything navin in life …right?? π€£ππ
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True that πβ¨
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