WHY IS TRUTH SO HARD TO FIND πŸ’‹

Why is everything about pride? Why do people lie? What is so hard about telling the truth even if it hurts? Truth sets you free…it heals the soul …words can be weapons or they can heal a heart…❀

I have no problem saying, I am sorry, or forgive me, or I LOVE YOU! Honesty is beautiful 😍 Honesty sets you free! Honesty opens the door for sooooo much! Apologize where needed and say forgive me where needed and say, I LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT ❀ if you love someone say it! Say it loud and clear …MAKE SURE THEY HEAR AND KNOW!!

And baby can I hold you? Good song? πŸ’‹β€

Author: glitzyritzymommy

Hi my name is nikki my nickname is sparkles. I am a glitzy fun loving mother of three wonderful children and a glammy mom-mom to two beautiful grandbabies. My life and heart are full! My daddy is still my world! My education is a certified medical assistant and i love the color pink my favorite holidays are halloween, 4th of july, christmas. I love God and life! These are the hardest years and the best years i just want to live life to the fullest! :)

59 thoughts on “WHY IS TRUTH SO HARD TO FIND πŸ’‹”

  1. Unfortunately we find ourselves on different levels of maturity and different sections of our life path. Like you I wear my heart on my sleeves. I say what’s inside my heart. There is no pride or pretending to be perfect. I know I’m not and I’m willing to learn and say so if I’m wrong. I’m human. It’s not an excuse for any actions, but indeed factual.
    It makes me vulnerable and it’s something that scares most. But for me it’s also being true to my most authentic self and it’s the only way.

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    1. I could not have said it better as I share the same …I admit my mistakes correct my wrongs and love with everything..makes me vulnerable to thieves but true to me! I still need to catch u up…its a not a great thing but its truth πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

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      1. I know you feel the same and don’t feel bad about not catching up. Best friends don’t always talk to each other, but they always know where to find the other. Thank you for being you and for making a difference in my life. πŸ˜‰

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      2. I am here love things are insane …what else is knew .. i almost feel I have no idea where to start but at least start somewhere right..the insanity of life and chaos never change …I am still stuck where I was when we last talked…somehow the mud is deep ..love ya 😘 send u a message today πŸ’›

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  2. I couldn’t agree more. But not everyone is brave like you my friend. You have a blessed heart and an iron clad faith. Wish there were more like you. All would be free.
    Thank you for a very honest post. What you write is the truth and that is that. Excellent

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    1. Sweetheart I am honored by this beautiful comment ❀ I always pride myself on honesty and not living with regret. Being brave sometimes hurts so bad and its a fight but I can never Settle. Thank you again for your beautiful words it was nice to wake up to this ❀

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      1. Oh sweetie I am so sorry 😞 covid is picking up again mostly everywhere..it needs to go away I am tired of living this way just like everyone else!! Life is so hard and all this does it magnify ten fold…I never knew life would become so hard…I mean life is hard but it’s just adds to the misery …and your busy with the store thats good!! Where i love many small businesses are going under its sad

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  3. I recall the words to a song I liked, it is an old, old song but it narrated the story about a girl who falls in love with a sailor, who in truth has a girl in every port (as they all do?) and who tells her that he will never settle down with her or with anybody but she still hopes, and “…he had always told the truth, Lord, he was an honest man”. So honesty is not always the solution or the problem, or both…anyways…sei un tesoro bella, baci, ciao, ci parliamo subito!

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    1. I like this however at least in truth she could make a clear conscious decision based on truth not falsenss…I value the truth then if I know the truth and I accept it I am accountable however if I am mislead and believe its the truth when I find out it is in fact dishonest and a lie and was fed lies then I have to hurt worse then if I knew the truth all along…but would love to hear the song!! In fact I love the storyline and am interested 😊 sei fantastico ti adoro tanti baci πŸ’‹πŸ˜˜

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      1. It would be the greatest crime if someone treated you, bella, like that. You are a pure and honest soul and you deserve the same. God bless. The song is called “Brandy” and it was a hit way back in the 70’s (I think)…
        Love and peace to you, bella, dalla Spagna! Un baci, non, mille!

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      2. Grazie Grazie πŸ’– πŸ’– lucky enough i have never had infidelity issues however I have had some issues with past relationships that where probably far worse …so all in all if you knew the back story you will still have the same beautiful response you just gave …i had to leave to escape what you call a crime because some hurt me ways that would make you gringe…I am waiting for that beautiful soul who’s soul matches mine…its coming its coming i feel it!!! Blowing you a kiss πŸ’‹ 😘

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  4. Well-said: “I have no problem saying, I am sorry, or forgive me, or I LOVE YOU! Honesty is beautiful 😍 Honesty sets you free!” So much better to say the words than hold them back. Took me too long to realize this, though. Good post!

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    1. Thanks so much!!! I recently told someone I am sorry that needed to hear it! I made a mistake one that I own and I said clearly to them that I was sorry and that I loved them! I meant every word of it! Your right honesty sets you free and as we get older we realize more its not about what people think of us its more about what we think of ourselves…honestly I’d rather look vulnerable and honest then a liar …I walked away from 8.5 years from someone who showed the world he was one way hiding who he was around me..they may never believe me but thats okay…he knows and God knows I can live with that. .I had to break my own heart to find peace …❀

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      1. You’re welcome! And I agree with you. You have to live with yourself most of all; you cannot run away from yourself really. It’s important to be honest with yourself, even though it hurts. I like how you said this: “I had to break my own heart to find peace”. I think it’s often true that this is the case. But it’s worth it to find a better place. Stay safe! Have a good rest of your week!

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      2. I did have to break my own heart actually more then once unfortunately..its never easy to end a marriage or relationship when your actually very much in love with the person but if it keeps affecting your peace and sanity and its mentally destructive you have to love yourself more thus breaking your own heart and loving your safe more ❀ I hope to find a refuge a warm cozy place in his arms with the one I wont have to break my heart again to be with happily…you stay safe and have a beautiful rest of your week as well πŸ’œ

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      3. That makes sense. I see exactly what you mean, even though it’s a very tough thing to do and takes lots of courage. I hope you’ll find same when you’re ready. All the best! πŸ™‚

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  5. I’ve been thinking about truth, but more than that, forgiveness. Such an important part of a relationship! A relationship of any kind. And now I’m off thinking about it again!!! Adore your last words.

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    1. Kris i admire this more then you know! Forgiveness is important πŸ™ I forgive as I ask to be forgiven …but I just wish those whom have hurt others would acknowledge it and apologize because a I AM SORRY goes a long way! Hugs to you πŸ€—

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      1. Something else I recently realised is that forgiveness doesn’t always mean reconciliation. What an amazing piece of life. To forgive and to feel sorrow and to apologise and to love. Time to rewatch The Princess Bride! ❀

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    1. Thanks sweetie πŸ˜‰ πŸ’– and I agree! I always wear my heart on my sleeve even though it may make others see that as a weakness…its not a weakness it makes me soft maybe vulnerable but I won’t change me because others are deceitful and cruel …I was created this way and its a gift a gift I bring to others and I belive as you say to break the cycle …I have broken my own heart many times walking away from those whom have 2 faces one they show to the world and one they are behind closed doors…its funny how people can be 2 people one they want there family and friends too see another they are when noone is watching …I have walked away from love and never looked back for those reasons….and now I open the door to others that should have been there all along ❀

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      1. Totally agree πŸ‘ its figuring them out before you open your heart the two faces sometimes show when your heart is already locked in…invested …that keeps happening to me …its my kindness I need to be more skeptical….hugs πŸ€—

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  6. Wow!! Another amazing masterpiece! Love it so much! Awesome message. Really loved the ending:
    “I LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT ❀ if you love someone say it! Say it loud and clear …MAKE SURE THEY HEAR AND KNOW!!” Bellissimo, Love, Bellissimo!
    xoxox
    πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•πŸ’–πŸŒΉπŸ˜

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    1. Thanks Love 😘 you know me chuck a heart of gold but always clear on my feelings πŸ’› I will make mistakes I will own them but always tell the truth and always say I love you when I need someone to know! If only others could be ad clear ❀

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      1. Thanks love 😘 just me always me ❀ smiles tears gentle heart and soul but a Spunky little Italian from jersey…πŸ’ͺπŸ’‹ who doesn’t take shit for too long…well maybe a tad too long BUT who doesn’t take shit πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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      2. Ha! Love your, Spunky little Italian from Jersey!!! I think the “Tad too long” is from the tender and forgiving heart??? Hope your day wasn’t too exhausting? You should be merloting by now??
        Stay safe and healthy, Love!
        xoxox
        πŸ˜πŸ’•πŸ˜˜πŸŒΉ

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  7. Great song. Honesty is beautiful but I know I have to feel safe to be completely honest. My β€˜dishonesty’ is more about withdrawing my true self and letting people make their own assumptions if that makes sense?

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    1. Well that was honest 😊 I understand what your saying and feeling safe is important! Feeling very safe makes all the difference! For me I don’t rest unless I tell someone exactly how I feel I must really say it and no matter what the conclusion i was honest and spike clearly and loudly…my feelings for someone are always genuine and if I make a mistake I own it and I fix it …I despise liars the most! My own quote id rather be hurt by the truth then mislead in a lie β€πŸ’‹

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