Tonight I Want To Get Real About Stalking!

It has been months since I have brought up the topic of stalking and have mentioned it in detail in a prior blog post when I first started my blog.

Tonight, I have realized stalking comes in many forms and I want to reach out and spread the word. First and foremost always trust your gut if I can stress anything ALWAYS trust your intuition….trust your gut if warning alarms go off about someone or if something feels off or strange or somewhat scary it is your body warning you! Listen to it! I wish I had! Had I listened I may not have gone through 13 years of hell being cyber stalked by someone whom I trusted and truly cared about. Trust me those alarms went off loud and clear and I choose to disregard them…If interested go down to my blog in its early stages and read my story. It will give details of the events that destroyed my life! Without rehashing all of that again my point of speaking out tonight is that anyone can be a stalker and stalking does not have to be a stranger whom you think follows you although that does happen, more times then not it is a very close friend, lover, spouse, employer, someone whom you consider an acquaintance! Again please hear me when I say…ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT! And men your no exception a stalker can be any sex, any person, any religion, hold any position and can wealthy or poor. There is no set person!

Stalking can be cyber or someone following someone, listening and recording phone conversations and or using cameras as a way to keep a watchful eye. Trust me being stalked destroyed my life and I have been stalked by all of the above. I hope I reach one person tonight by stressing no one is exempt and if something feels wrong listen to it and if it happens to you whatever you do..DO NOT WAIT! REPORT IT! I waited too long out of fear and I let my life be destroyed! I am resilient and more knowledgeable because of it and I want to help someone else tonight!

I love all of you and I wish all of you a wonderful night or morning or afternoon..wherever you are tonight! Kisses and love and be safe out there! Posting a song my stalker told me to listen too…till this day I remember his words! Word for word! You never forget! One thing i must point out he did not break me nor make my heart cold in fact it made me stronger and i am never going to stop being me πŸ’œβ€ If video does not play it is, SNUFF By slipknot xoxo

Author: glitzyritzymommy

Hi my name is nikki my nickname is sparkles. I am a glitzy fun loving mother of three wonderful children and a glammy mom-mom to three beautiful grandbabies. My life and heart are full! My daddy is still my world! My education is a certified medical assistant and i love the color pink my favorite holidays are Halloween, 4th of July, Christmas. I love God and life! These are the hardest years and the best years i just want to live life to the fullest! :)

42 thoughts on “Tonight I Want To Get Real About Stalking!”

  1. I appreciate you sharing this! I myself have been on the other end to a tamer degree and am doing my best to understand the ramifications of my actions and the traumatic effects this has on others. I wrote about it and understand if this comment upsets you and if so I’m very sorry πŸ’œ

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    1. Hi Colleen thanks for the honesty and definitely will check out your story…i myself have had a issue with trust since having this happen the damage is real!! Its always looking over your shoulder but I have learned to suppress it recently as I will not give the control of my life to anyone and justice for him will be served. .
      Thanks for the comment πŸ’–


  2. Chuck I adore and appreciate that very much! Thank you for the support! It took me years to stand up and I am finally at peace for the most part…God has angels be brings into our lives and some helped me πŸ˜˜β€πŸ’œ I am completely honored by your reblogging

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    1. I am the one who is honored, Dearest Nikki, to share your words, courage and encouragement with followers and the world!! You voice needs to be heard and I intend to be one that helps make that happen!!! People in the situation you were in need to see that they too can be strong and overcome! Love from me and the World, Dear Heart πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ˜Š

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    1. Brothers campfire I appreciate that from the bottom of my heart! Yes white wolf stated a beautiful fact from a beautiful warrior and I am humbled by the comments from both of you! Much love and respect to both πŸ˜˜πŸ’œβ€

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  3. Wow! What a powerful, raw and motivational post, Nikki! Bravo, Dear Heart for being strong and loving and caring enough to share your awful experiences with us so it will encourage others to fight back and help report and punish those do these evil things!! So proud of Your Spirit, Tender heart and Strength!!! A great example, My Dear!!
    xoxoxo πŸŒΉπŸŒΉπŸ‘βœ¨πŸ˜Š

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    1. Chuck that means the world to me!! Thank you! πŸ’œβ€ thank you for the encouragement!! It took me a long time to admit these truths as they continue to happen! Baci baci chuck
      Strong is my middle name love

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      1. I’m Your biggest cheerleader! Ha (but true)!! I was thrilled that you stepped up and shined the spotlight on this torturous behavior. I know how hard it has been to deal with this kind of thing and continue to deal with it?? Others will be encouraged and made brave enough to stand up and help stop it – #Me too, and your voice will be the Spark that set that fire in their hearts to stop it!! You said, I want to make a difference!! Well, My Dear Nikki – reread your post and the comments and get a taste of making a difference and you will get hooked!!! Not a bad thing in this situation!!! So happy for your successful first steps!! I’m doing my part by reblogging this to followers tonight!!

        Bellissimo, Nikki, Bellissimo
        xoxoxo πŸ’–πŸŒΉπŸ’‹πŸ˜Šβœ¨βœ¨

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  4. Nikki this is an incredible message and wonderful written and very heartfelt thank you for having the courage to stand tall and you’re an inspiration to many.❀️

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      1. No problem at all Nikki you had the courage to speak for other who feel they can’t you may just help take that next and seek help you inspire many be proud of that.β€οΈπŸ’œπŸΊ

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      2. I appreciate that very much! Took me years to speak up and tell and now I am glad I did! It took years to gain the courage but one thing about me I may get knocked down but never defeated when it is just πŸ’œβ€

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      3. That’s the thing about getting knocked because the people that did get a shock when you get back and keep fighting and you have a mountain of courage and it’s now coming out that’s a wonderful and beautiful thing you did something amazing here well done Nikki.β€οΈπŸ’œ

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      4. You have done more than you can imagine you gave a voice to the voiceless that is a powerful thing.β€οΈπŸ’œπŸΊ

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      5. Thank you robbie that means so very much!! β€πŸ’œ I do hope I reach someone and give them courage it took years for me to speak up! However in the end justice does prevail in everything β€πŸ’œ

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  5. Private Eyes was one of my favorite songs..still is, but oh my goodness!!! I have a friend here who wants to know me more than he does and I started up this blog mostly because I needed a place to vent and partly cuz I didn’t want him to find it. If he did, he’d read every single post and comment in an email on each one. Icky.

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