The New Me…Bringing Back The Girl Who I Use To Be xoxo

Life is a blessing, it is borrowed not promised! Life is to short to live with regret, anger, sweating the small stuff! Life is about love, friendship, your family, kids and living out any dreams you have. Recently over the past few years i have lost my way, sometimes we get wrapped up in others beliefs we lose our own to some degree or doubt our own. Strong willed and spunky little firecracker i am even i lost my way. Until now i put my ass in gear and decided to bring back ME!! Those who know me started to wonder where the girl they knew was, you know it is bad when your family and friends ask what happened to you, or why your not the person they know and love! The lively girl who always smiled and was in control who would take chances and dance the night away. Well to my family, friends old and new, all my beautiful fellow bloggers, I AM BACK! Here is my new motto in life!!

1.) Say what you need to say, say it loud! Say it clear! I finally told a very good friend of mine whom has known me almost my whole life what i needed too! Years went by and i was kept away from a friendship i adored! Finally,i reached out and i told this person what i needed too and our friendship will never fall to the waist side again! Years i sat looking at that number worried to reach out because of what the repercussions would be until i had enough! Now i wont have regret! And this person will be my friend for the rest of my life!!

2.) If you love someone and it is not typical or makes sense so what! Say it, believe in it, own it! Scream it! You get one life i say screw it, tell them! Love comes on all different levels, i love many people, each special in there own way! I love you, it is that easy! xoxo

3.) Live your dreams! I wanted to get my poetry out there, check, done, thank you to all of you who follow me and adore my words! Hey, i love you all!! See, easy!! πŸ™‚

4.) Bucket list! Awww… yes!! Here is mine short and sweet, easy. Silly maybe, you may think what kind of list is that, well when you have not lived the way you wanted too, little things matter more! This summer i want to take my kids to the shore, rent a place and spend time with my kids! I want to go to the city on a saturday night and dance the night way! Wine tasting, never have, will now! A night in a log cabin fire burning merlot in hand…awwww..heaven! And pink christmas tree this year and i mean…pink! Pink everything, pink bedroom, pink bathroom, girly and frilly! Look out boys i am a pink princess!! hehe πŸ˜‰ Travel, been to niagara, see that in my future again! Later on Italy, london, australia, germany, switzerland, okay this list goes on and on!

Wow, this felt good to write! This is real this me and i am back!! Look out world i am ready to go!! xoxo

Author: glitzyritzymommy

Hi my name is nikki my nickname is sparkles. I am a glitzy fun loving mother of three wonderful children and a glammy mom-mom to two beautiful grandbabies. My life and heart are full! My daddy is still my world! My education is a certified medical assistant and i love the color pink my favorite holidays are halloween, 4th of july, christmas. I love God and life! These are the hardest years and the best years i just want to live life to the fullest! :)

32 thoughts on “The New Me…Bringing Back The Girl Who I Use To Be xoxo”

    1. I agree mark..my heart was not whole and I lost many aspects of myself and constantly felt incomplete until I finally said…ENOUGH!
      I am ME again!! And you know what I love the real me!! Noone should change for anyone or bend to the point they break!! And yes it does attract accordingly πŸ˜‰ that’s a fact!! β€πŸ’œ

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  1. Wow! That’s the spirit! Go! Get life! Like Freddy Mercury said, β€œI want it all…” and if you aim for it all you just might get what you need (like Mick Jagger said)…great to hear that someone has put their arse in gear and is willing to start living life the way they want to! All the best!

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    1. Yes S…so very true! πŸ˜‰ that friendship meant everything to me..I cherish it! And that person treasures it too.we made a pact never again to lose it! And for all the friends I made now I am ready for a lifelong journey with all of you πŸ˜˜πŸ’œ

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