Be Yourself, there is one like you and you are unique. Be who you are and be proud of what you are, screw society, never impress anyone BUT YOU! If you look in the mirror and you like what is looking back be proud no one else can see your intentions if they are indeed truthful take pride in that truth. No mask, do not be fake, speak your mind and be different, its okay to be different. That makes you well, YOU! Be the real you, if someone does not love you for you, they need not be in your life, live for your beliefs not the ones others think you need to believe in! Refuse to settle whether in a relationship, career, speak your mind!
Follow your dreams, believe and trust in them do not ignore fate. Do not live with regret or fear. If you love someone say it, say it LOUD! Say it so loud that the world can hear it 🙂 if you have a dream that someone belittles or tries to sabotage rid them of your life. Negativity will ruin even the strongest making them wilt and fail, be positive. Never let anyone tell you that your dreams are wrong, if someone tries to control your dreams, holds you back, makes it hard for you to succeed, rid them of your life . Never live someones life, live yours!
Be grateful, be strong, confident but meek. Do not boast, let your actions speak for you. Seeing success verses hearing it speaks louder. Mediate, eat well, okay most days that is. Never deny yourself anything food, love, comfort, closeness, fun, everything in moderation as long as it can not hurt you or others is good for you and your well being. Pray, get a massage, exercise, kiss someone for hours, call a friend, roll in the grass, listen to the rain, smile. Love those in your life no matter who says you should not, do not let anyone dictate the heart the heart is not the mind it speaks the truth!!!
If a relationship is based on fear, is toxic, prevents you from being you,it can be a spouse, a significant other, a friend, a parent, leave, rid them of your life. No one has the right to control you, make you fear or apologize. Do not let toxic in if you have toxic and can not be freely you without reservation, rid them for they are toxic. Be with those who want you to succeed, let you live your truth, support and admire who you are. Truth will always win. Jealously will lose. Love those who push you to succeed, who celebrate in your accomplishments, who smile because you smile. If you have this in a spouse, significant other, parent or friend, hold them close and never let them go, for they are the diamond in the rough! And as i like to say both will sparkle and thrive!!!